Give to Transform Lives this Giving Tuesday

December 3, 2019

You can transform lives today.

Stacie, who lost her loving husband, Elmer, a master sergeant with 20 years of service in the Air Force, is proof of that. Stacie suffers from dystonia, a movement disorder in which a person’s muscles contract uncontrollably.

After Elmer died, Stacie didn’t know how she’d go on or where she’d live…

As her condition worsened, Stacie could no longer continue her job helping adults with special needs and disabilities. She began needing oxygen therapy to assist in her breathing. Stacie was wracked with worry about her health and what the future might hold.

After Elmer passed, Stacie learned about AFEV from the Casualty Affairs office. Considering her disability, they thought AFEV would be an ideal environment where she could receive therapy, be more active, and start to rebuild her life.

A resident at AFEV’s Bob Hope Village for about three years now, Stacie received speech, physical, and occupational therapy upon arriving here. She also recently began participating in our HOPE (Health Optimization Program for Everyone) Wellness program.

At first, Stacie needed walking poles simply to move about. Dystonia caused painful muscle spasms and contractions in both her legs. When someone experiences this type of pain, it can be hard for them to complete simple, day to day activities. As a result, relying on pain management solutions like CBD oil or over the counter medication becomes a huge part of their lives; severely reducing their quality of life. But because of the therapy and support youhelp provide through giving, she now walks without using poles! And that’s only the start…


Stacie is able to take a bike ride almost every morning to begin her day. She attends water aerobics regularly, where she loves to splash in the pool, and stretches her limbs during yogaclasses at our new fitness center specifically designed for seniors.

Stacie’s transformation has been nothing short of amazing. Her doctor marvels at her improved movement and how Stacie can now better manage her pain. And to think, all of this is possible because of the care and generosity of friends like YOU.

Please, will you help residents like Stacie? Your most generous #GivingTuesday gift today willbe a great blessing and will help us meet critical needs – from providing nourishing meals and medical care to transportation and wellness workshops – in the weeks and months ahead. Click HERE to give today.

Your kindness means the world to our residents like Stacie…

“Sometimes life throws you a curve. But you have to get up even when you think you can’t,” Stacie said. “My life wouldn’t be nearly as good if I wasn’t here. I don’t even want to think about that.”

Thank you for your compassionate heart and for your willingness to better the lives of our military widows like Stacie. Thank you for taking action on #GivingTuesday. Click HERE to give today.

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